Why women are hard to only belong to oneself, when I become a mother after a time to resist the obje kamikaze love

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Why women are hard to only belong to oneself, when I become a mother after a time: to resist the "object" of the process – Sohu every girl, as if from a very young age, active passive, began to naturally or half unconsciously become "mother" preparation. From the first to the pregnant girl menarche period (girlhood), our physical, psychological and social are brewing in the maternal period (motherhood) arrival. We continue to get from outside to the world is only a good mother "," the mother of a child with the influence of his life "," women have been a mother, is a woman of integrity "," love is the most selfless "and so on. We even from the girls in the period before the house and other games repeatedly play the role of a mother. But what we are going to talk about today is how the concept of motherhood has affected the psychological development of women. Cecile (Institutionalized), a "institutionalized" poet and feminist Adrienne Rich, put forward the concept of "institutionalized motherhood" in 1976. It refers to the patriarchal society gave birth to a kind of expectation. Motherhood is constructed as a kind of discourse. That is to say, it is constructed as a "no need to discuss" default state, a kind of absolute justice. The result of this construction is that the mainstream of society believes that, as a woman, "one day will become a mother" is not a matter of "choice", is an important aspect of women’s identity has a natural and health. Have a woman’s physiological structure, pregnancy, in their own bodies to nurture embryos, production, nurture children, are naturally bound together, forming a set of indisputable fixed. This fixed collocation affects our feelings of "blood". For example, we all know the genetic factors by chromosome carrying, but many of us still think, surrogacy (others in in vivo development, production) children, "feeling and (full) their children are not the same". The patriarchal society for "second layer motherhood" construction, is the "mother is the child’s primary caregiver" and "motherhood is always put the interests of the child in their own interests before the construction," before the words. Although more and more families also appeared as the primary caregivers of the father, we still feel that "more" is when we see a strange family will make the first guess mother to take care of the children. Similarly, when we hear the mother for the child to give up his own story, we will be moved but not accidental; and to hear those deprived of the interests of the child mother’s story, we sigh "how can there be such a mother? The dual construction of the society affects the choice of the female as a mother, and how to practice the content and standard of "mother". She was in Of Woman motherhood as experience and Born: Insti相关的主题文章: